The Conscious Mind
The logical part of you. It sets the goal, makes the plan, and then invents a sensible cover story when you don't follow through.


The Resistant To Consistent book helps you understand the deeper reason you procrastinate, hesitate, and overthink.
It gives you a science-based, 4-step method to move forward without more discipline, time, or self-blame.
You know what you want and what to do. But you don't always do it. When pushing harder, hacks, and time management stop working, it's time to go to the source. Resistant To Consistent helps you understand the deeper reason you procrastinate, hesitate, and overthink, and gives you a science-based, 4-step method to move forward without more discipline, time, or self-blame.
Discover the hidden survival mechanism behind your resistance (it's NOT laziness)
Learn the 4 steps that regulate resistance the moment it hits
Apply it to your career, health, habits, and relationships
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I thought I was just being lazy. This method helped me see what was actually stopping me.
I thought I was just being lazy. This method helped me see what was actually stopping me.
Maybe it's the uncomfortable conversation you keep putting off. The decision you keep mulling over. The boundary or request you keep meaning to make.
You go through cycles of pushing hard and pulling back. All in or all out. Starting and stopping.
Constantly.
This isn't a discipline problem. It's a resistance problem.
Resistance rarely sounds like fear. It sounds perfectly reasonable:
But add them up, and they quietly cost you. The opportunities you didn't take. The conversations that never happened. The goals that are still "someday." And eventually, you start to wonder what's wrong with you.
The book's Three-Layer Resistance Model shows what is really happening when you put off the thing you said you would do.
The logical part of you. It sets the goal, makes the plan, and then invents a sensible cover story when you don't follow through.
Processes feelings and sensations, scans for threats and runs your stress response. When it senses danger, it hijacks your conscious mind and logical plans.
A rulebook your mind built early in life about what is emotionally safe and who you have to be. It causes your emotional system to hijack your mind to keep you safe.
You can't think your way out of it. You have to regulate it.
That is what the Resistant To Consistent method is for.
Uncover the subconscious, survival identity fear causing your resistance.
Reframe the fear with a story that soothes your emotional system so you can move forward.
Choose the version of you who takes the action. Behavior follows identity.
Take one small, aligned action. Not a heroic leap. Every time you take it, the new identity wins.
The book walks you through each step, with reflection questions and worksheets.
If you saw yourself in the list on the left, this book found you at exactly the right time.
As a former strategy consultant, tech startup founder, and now as an executive coach, I’ve prided myself on tackling tough challenges. But I ran into one that I simply couldn’t solve.
It was a problem I struggled mightily with at one point in my life. I noticed it in others, too.
Like my client Meg. She’s smart, self-aware, has a PhD, and has a strong career. Every January she’d recommit to her health goals. She’d start strong, then a busy week would hit, and she’d fall off track.
I kept seeing the same thing with other clients. Capable people who knew exactly what to do but would struggle to do it. And it really bothered me that I didn't have a real answer for them because I knew inconsistency was causing them to struggle and suffer.
“I committed to crack this nut once and for all. I wasn't going to fail Meg and others like her.”
I built a framework that didn't exist yet, refined it with my long-time clients, and turned it into this book. Not recycled motivation ideas or hacks but a science-based, emotion-informed method to follow through even when resistance tries to stop you.
Leaders and professionals on what changed when they started using the method.
When I'd procrastinate, I thought I was just being lazy... This method helped me see that it was actually resistance coming up and preventing me from trying at all, because I didn't want to fail. But now, I catch it early and just do my best. There is less shame and more action.
This finally connected the dots on how my past was shaping how I show up day-to-day... This work has completely changed how I show up as a leader.
I can see now what was driving the impostor syndrome, the rumination, the procrastination. I feel more clear, more energized. I really needed this.
“I used to struggle to wake up early. But this method helped me notice why and unblocked me so I could take small steps. Now, I wake up earlier, more energized, and with a plan for the day. It feels like I’m more in control of my time. It feels great!”
“The R2C method really shifted my emotional eating struggles. I had all the information before: diets, hacks, steps. But now, when my emotions come up, applying the method reminds me that I’m safe, that I’m OK, that I don’t need to default to junk food. It’s curbed a lifelong food addiction. It wasn’t even forced. It felt natural.”
“Before, I’d struggle with pitching my work, especially face-to-face. This method has helped me navigate the fear of rejection in a way I never knew I could. It’s helped me with mental blocks I had been struggling with for years.”
“I’ve consumed a lot of the books in this space. All of them were full of hacks, philosophies, systems… nothing that actually goes to the core (the story inside our head)… But with your book I feel the shift inside me already happening."
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